How to Use the Law of Attraction to Attract Your Perfect Partner
Whether we realize it or not, the law of attraction is always hard at work drawing things and people into our lives. Yet are we attracting the right people? If you’re still searching for your perfect partner – like so many other people – then the answer is a resounding “no.”
Something you are doing is bringing and sometimes keeping the wrong people in your life. How can you attract the perfect partner into your life? Although it will take some work, you can make the law of attraction work in your favor. Here’s how:
Shift Your Focus to Your Heart’s Desires
The law of attraction is a powerful thing, but for many of us, that power is working against us. Why? Because we’re so focused on the wrong things.
The law of attraction says that we attract what we focus on. If you’re focused on your being single, what you dislike about being single, what you don’t like about your life or what you don’t want in a partner, that is what you’re going to attract more of into your life. It’s easy to fall into this way of thinking because you’re afraid of attracting the wrong person and focused on how unhappy you are.
So here’s the problem:
- If you are unhappy, you will attract someone who will make you unhappy.
- If you feel like the people in your life are treating you poorly, then you will attract someone who will treat you poorly.
- If you don’t love and respect yourself you will be with people who don’t love and respect you just for being you.
Instead of telling the universe what you don’t want (which will only bring more of that into your life), tell the universe what you do want. Make sure to also tell the universe what you do love about others, and about yourself and your life.
What qualities do you want in a partner? What kind of relationship do you want? What do you want your life to be like? Write your answers down. Focus on them, say them out loud and stay focused on them.
Only when you shift your focus to your heart’s desires can you attract the right partner, relationship, and love into your life.
Let Go of the Past
If you are still hung up on the wrongs of past relationships, you will only attract more of the same. If you walk into a new relationship assuming that it will end badly, that new relationship will be like the old one or that this person is only going to disappoint you, then that’s exactly what’s going to happen.
Remember, you attract what you focus on. Let go of the past and assumptions that your next relationship will be a disaster. Instead, visualize yourself in a happy, healthy relationship with a partner who is your equal in giving and receiving love and has desirable traits.
Be Happy Now – While You’re Single
If you want to attract the right partner, choose and take actions to be happy now while you’re single. Enjoy your life. Enjoy being single. Remember that you don’t need a partner to feel whole and complete, you want to show up being whole and complete ready for the love you want.
When you love yourself, accept yourself and find happiness from within, you become whole, vibrate at a higher level and will begin to attract the right people into your life.
Put in the Work to Change
Shifting your focus and letting go of negative beliefs is no easy task. You may not know where to start or how to navigate this path of change. Making such deeply personal changes can be difficult to do on your own.
A program like Calling in “The One” and the guidance of a personal coach can help you take that leap of faith and efficiently and effectively start making changes that will help you attract the right life partner, your soul mate, your beloved.